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A Korean baby in soft hanbok held close by family, the quiet register of a hundred-day baek-il celebration at home.
백일 · Baek-il · Bay Area & Northern California

One hundred days, quietly kept.

The first milestone in a Korean child's life. A small table, white rice cake shared for long life, the baby in soft hanbok, and the hundred-day photograph. We coordinate the quiet ceremony that comes before the dol.

Baek-il (백일) is the Korean hundred-day celebration, held when a baby reaches one hundred days of life. Historically it was a moment of relief. In centuries when many infants did not survive their first months, reaching a hundred days meant the child had made it through the most dangerous stretch, and the family marked it with white rice cake, a small blessing, and the first opening of the house to visitors.

Today baek-il is a quiet, joyful family gathering that comes about three months before the larger first-birthday dol. It is the smaller of the two milestones, and the more intimate. We coordinate the piece of the day that carries the tradition. The rice cakes, the baby's hanbok, the small table, and the hundred-day photograph.

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The word

What baek-il actually means.

百日

Baek-il · One hundred days

Baek (백, 百) means hundred. Il (일, 日) means day. Baek-il is simply the hundredth day, counted from birth. The number is not decorative. In a time before modern medicine, the first hundred days were the most perilous of a child's life, and a baby who reached the mark was, for the first time, expected to live.

So baek-il began as the day the family exhaled. The geumjul (금줄), the straw rope hung across the gate after a birth to keep visitors and misfortune out, came down around this time, and the household opened again. The relief became a small celebration, and the celebration became a tradition that outlived the danger that created it.

The foundation

Three feelings, held in one afternoon.

Baek-il is one of the gentlest ceremonies in Korean culture. It carries less spectacle than the dol and more quiet. What we set in the room reflects the three feelings underneath it.

안도

Relief

The oldest layer of baek-il. The child made it through the hundred hardest days. In a Korean family that remembers how recently that was not guaranteed, the relief is real, even now, even here.

감사

Gratitude

Thanks to Samsin Halmoni, the birth grandmother of Korean folk belief, and thanks to the family who held the parents up through the first exhausting months. The gratitude is offered in a bowl of rice and seaweed soup.

기원

Wish

The wish for a long life, carried in the white rice cake shared with a hundred people. Each share is a small blessing gathered back toward the child. The whole day is a wish made edible.

The day the family exhaled. A survival milestone that became a blessing.

The rice cakes

Two rice cakes, and a hundred blessings.

Baek-il has no doljabi table. Its heart is the rice cake, and specifically two of them, each carrying a wish for the child. Mrs. Lee makes both, and the sharing of the white cake is the tradition families remember.

백설기

Baekseolgi

The plain white steamed rice cake at the center of baek-il. White for purity and a clean, unmarked start. By tradition it is shared with a hundred people, so that a hundred blessings return to the child and the child lives a long life. The sharing is the point.

수수팥떡

Susu patteok

The sorghum and red bean rice cake. Red was believed to keep misfortune and bad spirits away, so the susu patteok stands guard over the child's early years. In some families it is served at every birthday until the child turns ten.

삼신상

The Samsin offering

A small table set for Samsin Halmoni, the birth grandmother, with plain white rice and miyeok-guk (seaweed soup). It thanks the spirit believed to watch over birth and asks for the child's continued health. Quiet, and for many families the most meaningful part.

The hundred-share tradition adapts easily to the diaspora. Families send baekseolgi home with guests, drop it to neighbors and coworkers, or mail a few pieces to relatives. Each share still counts as a blessing gathered back. We scale the rice cakes to the sharing you want to do.

The sequence

What actually happens, in order.

A baek-il is short and gentle, usually forty-five minutes to an hour from setup to the last photograph. There is no doljabi and no long program. The register is intimate. We hold the small timing so the parents, who are three months into no sleep, do not have to.

  1. The table is set rice cakes, and the Samsin offering

    The baekseolgi and the susu patteok arranged on a small table. For families who keep the folk tradition, the Samsin offering of plain rice and miyeok-guk set to the side. The baby's hanbok laid out and ready.

  2. The baby is dressed soft hanbok, a small cap

    The hundred-day-old in a gentle baek-il hanbok, often white or a pale palette. Tiny beoseon on the feet. It is a very small outfit for a very small person, and it photographs like nothing else.

  3. The family gathers immediate family, close in

    Grandparents and parents. Baek-il is not a big-guest occasion. The room is small on purpose. Everyone can hold the baby, and most will.

  4. A blessing, and the rice cake shared a hundred blessings gathered

    The eldest present offers a short blessing for a long, healthy life. Then the baekseolgi is cut and set aside to share, with guests, with neighbors, with relatives near and far. Each share is a small wish sent back toward the child.

  5. The hundred-day photographs the frames the family keeps

    The baek-il portrait is a cherished Korean tradition in its own right. Baby alone, baby with parents, baby with grandparents. We hold the timing and coordinate the photographer so the frames happen before the baby is ready to be done.

No doljabi, no long program. A hundred-day-old, a white rice cake, and a family catching its breath.

The clothing

What the baby wears, kept simple.

Baek-il hanbok is quieter than dol hanbok. The baby is only three months old, so the pieces are tiny and soft, and the palette is often white or pale rather than the vivid saekdong the child will wear at the first-birthday dol.

The baby · 아기

  • Baenaejeogori or jeogori 배냇저고리A soft newborn jacket or a small jeogori, tied rather than buttoned, cut for a three-month-old. Often white or cream, the register of a clean, unmarked start.
  • Simple chima or baji 치마/바지A small skirt or soft pants in a gentle tone, if the family wants a fuller outfit. Many keep baek-il to the jacket alone.
  • Gulle or bonnet 굴레A soft embroidered baby cap, lighter than the dol jobawi. Small, delicate, and the detail Korean grandmothers look for in the photograph.
  • Beoseon 버선Tiny white cotton socks with the curved toe, small enough for a hundred-day-old foot.

The family · 가족

  • Optional parent hanbokMany families keep baek-il casual for the adults and let the baby be the only one in hanbok. For families who want the coordinated photograph, we dress the parents in soft daily-wear hanbok in a shared palette.
  • GrandparentsIf the grandparents want to mark the day in hanbok, we coordinate gentle formal daily-wear that keeps the visual focus on the baby.
  • The registerBaek-il is a quiet occasion. The clothing stays soft and understated. Save the vivid saekdong and the full ceremonial dress for the dol.

Baek-il hanbok is almost always rented, since the baby will outgrow it in weeks. We coordinate the rental, the sizing, and the delivery, and we help match any family pieces to the baby's palette.

Baek-il today

How Korean American families keep it now.

The hundred-day photoshoot.

The baek-il portrait (백일사진) is a tradition of its own in modern Korea, and it has traveled. Many Korean American families book a studio or an at-home photographer for the hundred-day frames, often the first formal photographs of the child. We coordinate the setup and the timing around the baby's short cooperative window.

Small on purpose.

Where the dol is the big public celebration, baek-il stays intimate. Immediate family, an hour, a table of rice cakes. Many families prefer it exactly this way, a private breath before the larger first-birthday party three months later.

The sharing goes digital.

The hundred-share tradition adapts. Families hand baekseolgi to guests, drop it to neighbors, and mail pieces to relatives, and increasingly announce the hundred days over a family video call to grandparents in Korea. The blessing still gathers back to the child.

Some skip it, and that is fine.

Plenty of Korean American families mark only the dol. Baek-il is not obligatory. It is a gift you give the grandparents and yourselves, a quiet early moment worth having if you want it. We keep it low-key by design.

Eric coordinates. Mrs. Lee makes the rice cakes. Neither of us hands the day off.

The two of us

A family atelier, run by a family.

Eric Lee, founder of The Korean In Me, at the San Mateo studio.Eric Lee & Mrs. Lee YoungsookThe atelier, San Mateo

The atelier is two people.

Eric coordinates every ceremony personally. He replies to the first email, holds the timing on the day, and stands at the edge of the room to correct the small missteps. Nothing is delegated. Nobody else is added to the thread.

Mrs. Lee Youngsook, his mother, cooks every dish that leaves our kitchen. She grew up in Korea, setting charye tables with her own mother and helping run family ceremonies as a young woman. What she brings to a day is not a menu. It is a lifetime of watching Korean ceremony done correctly.

Why families choose us

The baek-il coordinators Korean American families trust with the small day.

Baek-il is small, which is exactly why it rewards someone who knows the tradition and holds it lightly. We coordinate baek-il for Korean and Korean American families across San Mateo, San Francisco, Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Napa, and Sonoma. Eric coordinates. Mrs. Lee makes the rice cakes. Neither of us hands the day off.

Rice cakes made by a Korean grandmother

Mrs. Lee makes the baekseolgi and the susu patteok herself. Real steamed rice cake, made the way it is meant to taste, scaled to the sharing you want to do. The hundred-share tradition only works if the cake is worth sharing.

Baek-il hanbok that fits a three-month-old

Sizing a hundred-day-old is its own skill. We source soft baek-il pieces cut for the six-week-to-four-month range and handle the fit so the outfit looks right in the photograph and feels right on the baby.

The timing a newborn can handle

A three-month-old sets the schedule, not the family. We keep the ceremony short and hold the photographs to the baby's brief happy window. Nothing important is scheduled after the baby is done.

The Samsin offering, done right

For families who keep the folk tradition, Mrs. Lee sets the Samsin table with plain rice and miyeok-guk in the correct, quiet way. For families who do not, we skip it without fuss. The consultation is where we learn what your family actually does.

Setup, breakdown, and a light footprint

We arrive, set the small table, coordinate the moment, then pack it all away. Baek-il is intimate, so we keep our footprint small and let the family have the room.

A family, run by a family

Eric replies personally. Mrs. Lee cooks personally. No back office, no handoff. From the first message to the packup, you are working with the two of us.

The scope of our baek-il service

What our baek-il coordination includes.

A full baek-il coordination covers the baby's hanbok, the rice cakes, the small table, and the day-of timing. Below is the standard scope. Baek-il is small, so the scope is lighter than a dol, and the consultation shapes it to your family.

Consultation call

An initial video or in-studio conversation covering the date, the family size, the sharing you want to do, and which parts of the tradition matter most to your family.

Baek-il hanbok rental for the baby

Soft jeogori or baenaejeogori, cap, beoseon, sized to your hundred-day-old. Delivered to your home.

Baekseolgi and susu patteok

The two ceremonial rice cakes, made by Mrs. Lee, scaled to the number of blessings you want to share.

The small table setup

The ceremonial table, linens, and, for families who keep the folk tradition, the Samsin offering of rice and miyeok-guk.

Optional hanbok for the family

Soft daily-wear hanbok for parents or grandparents, coordinated in a shared palette that keeps the focus on the baby.

Day-of coordination

Eric holds the small timeline, cues the blessing and the rice cake share, and keeps the hour gentle and unhurried.

Hundred-day photo coordination

We work with your photographer or recommend one, and we know the frames that matter for a baek-il portrait.

Optional Mrs. Lee catering

A fuller Korean spread for the family gathering after, scaled to your guest count. Priced separately.

Setup and breakdown

We arrive, set the table, coordinate the moment, then break it down and take it home. Your family holds the day.

Investment

From $1,200

Standard baek-il coordination for a Bay Area home celebration. The baby's baek-il hanbok rental, the baekseolgi and susu patteok, the small table setup, and the day-of coordination.

Baek-il is the smaller milestone, so it costs less than a dol. Most Bay Area baek-il celebrations land between $1,200 and $2,600. The final quote depends on the family size, how much rice cake you want to share, whether the parents and grandparents are in hanbok, and whether you add Mrs. Lee's fuller catering.

The consultation is free. So is the first email.
Tell us the baby's hundred-day date.
We will send a real quote inside a business day.

Frequently asked questions

The questions every family asks.

What is baek-il, exactly?
Baek-il (백일) is the Korean hundred-day celebration, held when a baby reaches one hundred days of life. Historically it was a survival milestone. In centuries of high infant mortality, a baby who reached a hundred days was understood to have made it through the most dangerous stretch, and the family marked the relief with rice cakes, a small blessing, and the first opening of the house to visitors. Today it is a quiet, joyful family gathering that comes about three months before the larger first-birthday dol.
How is baek-il different from the dol?
Baek-il is the smaller, quieter milestone. It falls at a hundred days, it is usually immediate family only, and there is no doljabi (the object-grabbing ceremony). The dol (돌) is the larger public celebration at the first birthday, with the doljabi table, the tteok tower, and the full guest list. Many families hold both: a small, intimate baek-il at home, then a larger dol three months later. Think of baek-il as the first breath out and the dol as the celebration.
We are already planning a dol. Do we need baek-il too?
You do not need both, and plenty of Korean American families mark only the dol. Baek-il is worth doing when you want a small, early moment to gather the grandparents, take the hundred-day photographs, and share the rice cakes, without the scale of a dol. It is a low-key, deeply photogenic afternoon. We scope it accordingly, and we keep it small on purpose.
How much lead time do you need?
For a Bay Area home visit, two to three weeks is enough. Baek-il falls on a fixed day counted from birth, so the date is known early. The main lead time is the hanbok sizing, since baek-il hanbok fits a roughly three-month-old and the fit window is narrow. Send us the date as soon as you have it and we will lock the sizing and the rice cakes.
What does the baby wear?
Baek-il hanbok is simpler than dol hanbok. At a hundred days the baby is very small, so the pieces are tiny and soft, often in white or a pale palette rather than the vivid saekdong of the dol. Some families dress the baby in a small jeogori and a soft cap. Some keep it to a simple white hanbok, which reads as the clean, unmarked start the day is about. We source and size the pieces, and we keep the register gentle.
What are the rice cakes for?
Two rice cakes anchor a baek-il. Baekseolgi (백설기), a plain white steamed rice cake, stands for purity and a clean, untouched start, and by tradition it is shared with a hundred people to gather a hundred blessings and long life for the child. Susu patteok (수수팥떡), a sorghum and red bean rice cake, is there to ward off misfortune, since red was believed to keep bad spirits away. Mrs. Lee makes both. The sharing of the baekseolgi is the heart of the tradition.
Do we need a venue, or can it be at home?
Home is the right place for baek-il. It is an intimate, immediate-family occasion, not a venue event. We bring the rice cakes, the small table, the ceremonial linens, and the baby's hanbok. A single room is plenty. We travel throughout the Bay Area (San Mateo, San Francisco, Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Fremont, Cupertino) and up into the Peninsula and Wine Country.
What's included, and what costs extra?
Standard baek-il coordination includes the consultation, the baby's baek-il hanbok rental and sizing, the baekseolgi and susu patteok, the small ceremonial table setup, day-of coordination, and photo coordination for the hundred-day portraits. Add-ons: coordinated hanbok for the parents and grandparents, Mrs. Lee's fuller Korean spread scaled to your family, and a printed card explaining baek-il to non-Korean guests. Everything is transparent in the quote.
Other ceremonies we coordinate

The Korean American calendar held with care.

Dol 돌

The first birthday, three months after baek-il. The doljabi table, the tteok tower, the saekdong hanbok, the family photograph. The larger public celebration that baek-il quietly precedes. Read the dol guide.

Paebaek 폐백

The Korean wedding bow ceremony. Both families, the deep bow, the tossed dates and chestnuts, the words of wisdom from the elders. Read the paebaek guide.

Chuseok & Seollal

The two great Korean holidays. Charye, sebae, songpyeon, tteokguk. For families wanting to bring the holidays back into the house, we help set the table and walk the day. Read the holiday guide.

Before your consultation

Five things to have ready.

Bringing these to the first email means the quote we send back is a real quote, not a guess. Nothing here is a hard requirement. Rough answers are fine.

  1. The date

    The exact date if you have one, or a two- or three-week window.

  2. The city and venue

    Your home city, or the venue if you already have one booked. Bay Area, Peninsula, or Wine Country lets us map the travel.

  3. The family size

    How many adults, how many children. Which family members will be dressed in hanbok.

  4. Your family traditions

    What you already do, what you want to add, what you want to skip. If a grandparent has a specific practice, tell us.

  5. Anything you are unsure about

    The consultation is where we resolve the unknowns. Bring the questions you do not know the answers to.

Every one of these can be a single sentence. The first email does not need to be long.

Begin a conversation

Tell us the date, tell us the family.

A few sentences is enough to start. The baby's hundred-day date, the family size, and how much of the tradition you want to keep. Eric writes back personally, usually inside one business day.

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